Monday, December 29, 2014

Thoughts on Assimilation and Parashat Vayigash



We just finished celebrating Chanukah, a holiday which reminds us of the ills of assimilation, especially when it leads us away from maintaining a path of Torah living and learning.  Part of today’s Torah portion, Vayigash, tells of the descent into Egypt by Jacob and his sons.  Although, Jacob’s son, Joseph, held a very powerful position within the Egyptian court, Joseph still instructed his brothers’ and his father’s households to settle in the land of Goshen with its rich pastureland.  They were to work as shepherds, an occupation not respected in Egypt.

If you read the commentary in Aytz Chayim today, it suggested that the brothers were not embarrassed about being shepherds.  They had a healthy self-esteem about their work as a result of having been raised in their own land.  Joseph, according to the commentary, was raised in the Diaspora and worried about what his neighbors would think and in an attempt to show sensitivity to his Egyptian cohorts’ feelings, he modified the language he would use to describe his family’s source of livelihood.  Instead of being shepherds, they were to be described as breeders of livestock.

Perhaps, for the Jews who made their way into Goshen where their language remained alive as well as their customs and traditions, assimilation did not seem to be a worry. Perhaps, having an occupation that was hated by Egyptian society, actually kept the Israelites safely apart from their neighbors.

Joseph, on the other hand, did not live apart from the Egyptians.  He worked among them, rose to a position of prominence in their society, adopted their dress, and their language.  Yet, when he met his brothers, it is obvious that he never gave up his connection to G-d. He tells them that it was G-d who sent him to Egypt and gave him an important mission to fulfill.  He spoke to them in Hebrew, without an interpreter.  His connection to his brothers did become publicly known….he did not hide his identity.

In Sparks of Light, Essays on the Weekly Torah Portion Based on the Philosophy of Rav Kook, it is written that “It is relatively easy to be righteous when one is in a conducive environment….The pressures of everyday life and the constant need to justify one’s actions in a hostile society often cause one to relax the religious fervor that one previously felt and to cease practicing Judaism.”  However, although Joseph looked like an Egyptian, we can see that he never forgot his connection to G-d.  It influenced his behavior even when he refused to lie with Potiphar’s wife.   His response to her was, “How can I do this most wicked thing and sin before G-d?” Even when he was interpreting dreams in the prison, prior to his rise to fame, he prefaced his interpretations by saying, “Surely G-d can interpret. Tell me your dreams.” In other words, Joseph did not shy away from speaking about his Jewish background and belief in G-d as transmitted to him via his father Jacob.

In many ways, the world in which we are living is not much different than the world in which Joseph was living.  We live amongst non-Jews, dress similarly, compete for work in the same venues, and many of us even intermarry as did Joseph when he married Asenath, the daughter of an Egyptian priest.  We have to decide whether or not we are going to totally assimilate into the larger society or hold on to our beliefs, customs, and traditions. When we think about our own children and grandchildren we have to consciously decide whether or not we will provide them with the opportunities for understanding who they are and what makes them unique as Jews compared to the rest of society. I think Rabbi Dr. Geoffrey Haber’s analysis of why he loves Judaism, speaks to many Jews. He wrote, “ I love Judaism because it is a This World oriented religion….if we see something broken, we want to fix it….I love Judaism because it is not only a religion but a sense of community….I love Judaism because we are born neutral and can walk down any path we choose, but if we err we can change and repent our ways…..I love being Jewish because it beckons me to ask questions and to even struggle with G-d.”

May we learn to look at Joseph’s life as a model for refusing to hide one’s attachment to Judaism and the belief that we have a covenant with G-d.  May we remember that when we bless our male children to become like Joseph’s sons, Ephraim and Menashe, that we do so knowing that they become the models for future generations not because they were raised in isolation from their non-Jewish peers, rather because they were raised to maintain their Jewishness even in the midst of peers who did not share their value system.

Only time will tell how we succeed as a people to fight the forces of assimilation. When Rav Kook compared us to Joseph, he wrote, “We are also the children of Israel. The whole time that we continue to survive, live, and teach the ideals that he brought to the world, we continue to give Yaakov, Yitchak, and Avraham eternal life.  …..Our prayer is that we shall always continue to represent them honorably and succeed.”

Shabbat Shalom.

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