Tuesday, November 24, 2015

A World With No Hate Shabbat Message from Dr. Marilyn Johnson-Farr

Thank you, Nancy, for this wonderful opportunity to be in worship and fellowship with you this evening and the great members of this temple.  I always knew that you would carry with you from your many years of service to Lincoln Public Schools, and particularly your role as an Equity Liaison where we connected the heart, head, and hands, to continue to make sure that the issues of social justice stayed a part of your core on this journey to live in peace and harmony some day.  I am certain the members of this temple would give an amen to that. You won’t allow folks to run or hide.  I’d also like to thank my Pastor, Rev. Karla Cooper and Congregation from Quinn Chapel A.M.E, and my extended family members for their presence.  As I was in the grocery store this week, I was walking down the aisle and this can caught my attention. It said Hate Spread.  I was curious to see what ingredients were in it and wanted to know how it gets spread.  What’s that I hear?  You thought it was no longer on the shelf.  In recent months there has been a re-manufacturing of it. Let’s look at the ingredients: Bigotry, Prejudice, Selfishness, Stereotyping, Self-Righteousness, Disappointing, Bias, Intolerance, Real, Racism.

Homophobia, Xenophobia, Islamaphobia, just us.

Interesting combination of ingredients.  All leading to wet your appetite with hate, racism, privilege, and prejudice.  So one might ask how does it get spread?  It is so simple.  You walk into the break room or you are walking in to church service and you engage in a parking lot conversation.  Someone you call a friend or associate says to you, 'have you heard the one about a bunch of', you fill in the blank.  You know when you can’t put yourself in the joke and get the same chuckle that it’s not appropriate; but, the part you missed is you didn’t challenge it because it’s a friend or a colleague, relative or the air was knocked out of you.  Someone gets belittled in that conversation.  So the prejudicial attitude becomes a main ingredient.  When I am not stopped, I get really bold.  I’ll drive past a place of worship, see members of the congregation outside and I’ll hurl a name or two at them; or, I’ll go to a restaurant and intentionally say loud enough they are here taking all the jobs, let a bunch of, would let them in here?  Don’t even drive that way--you know all of them live there.  So what was a whisper now has voice.  And as my voice gets stronger, some folks begin to listen and look up to me and I start to think I really am somebody.  Ingredient 2. Seems pretty harmless; but, left unattended, I start to harass folks anywhere I can find them because of their religion, nationality, gender sexual orientation, race. And it feels sooo good.  And if a group I think is beneath me is getting ahead of me, I start having multiple conversations in my head about how I am going to get them.

Then my talk gets stronger and I start to act against people and their property.  I commit acts of violence.  If we look at Dylan Roof a few months ago when his hate for African Americans boiled over into an act that stunned not only South Carolina but also our nation as we saw nine members of a black church snuffed away in the twinkling of an eye.  In a space dedicated for worship and spreading of the good news.  Where He was offered hospitality and hope.  Those who were like-minded made their presence known shortly after by desecrating other houses of worship.  We most recently have been reminded of the terrorist who acts unannounced and challenges us to live a life under a bushel because we fear going anywhere.

From Mizzou, to Yale, to Harvard, to Dartmouth, to Doane to UNL, students are letting us know they're tired of being made invisible and Black Lives Do Matter.  While those who are cowards use social media to spread their hate, a comment appeared in the Lincoln Journal Star regarding the rally yesterday--"I’ll hate minorities if I want and you can love their Asses for all I care".  People aren’t all going to think the same way.  Your protesting won’t change that.

On the other hand, a State Senator commended students for taking a stand and another commented things must be so good for students at UNL they have to create controversy to make them relevant.   To East High School where a student thought it would be funny to single out a student who was wearing a hijab and say, 'Look there’s a terriost'.  Nebraska Nice you might say.

Some of you will recall the power and controversy when Rodger’s and Hammerstein penned these words:
You’ve got to be taught to hate and fear
You’ve got to be taught from year to year
It’s got to be drummed in your dear little ear
You’ve got to be taught to be afraid
Of people whose eyes are oddly made
And people whose skin is a different shade
You’ve got to be carefully taught before it’s too late
Before you are six or seven or eight
To hate all the people your relatives hate
You’ve got be carefully taught

These words have stood the test of time and if we look at some hate crime statistics we see some are still being carefully taught.  5,479 hate crimes were reported in 2014.  Anti-LGBT, Anti-Black, Anti-Latino and Anti-Jewish crimes have dropped; but, an uptick in Anti-Muslim from 135 to 154.  Just imagine the number of incidents that aren’t reported because victims assume nothing will happen.

Hatred and being bitter just keeps a person living a life loaded with fear and paralyzed. Confusion commits itself along with darkness to be a constant companion.  The many acts we have seen and will continue to see remind us of that thin line between love and hate.  It is required of us to love from the very bottom of our tiptoes those who need love and may not love us back. But when you can love, you have power and we know as a community of believers it can transform an enemy into a friend.  But we are also required to be patient.

So as we gather with family and friends over the next weeks and celebrate our many rich traditions and love on one another, think about the pain we have witnessed in 2015.  In our world, community and even though we are not direct victims, we are indirectly sharing in the pain.  In our humanness, we share a brokenness and a sense of hopelessness.  That without an abundance of love for ones self and our neighbor, hate will continue to destination unknown.

John Lennon said:
IMAGINE ALL THE PEOPLE Living Life in Peace

We should leave here tonight with peace and  love at our core and a commitment to illuminate love in each encounter we have.  And when we do this, it give us the mitigated gall to Stand Up and Speak Out when we see an injustice. And we are then able to Reach Out and Touch.

Dr. Marilyn Johnson-Farr
Dwight E. Porter Professor
  of Education










 Thank you, Nancy, for this wonderful opportunity to be in worship and fellowship with you this evening and the great members of this temple.  I always knew that you would carry with you from your many years of service to Lincoln Public Schools, and particularly your role as an Equity Liaison where we connected the heart, head, and hands, to continue to make sure that the issues of social justice stayed a part of your core on this journey to live in peace and harmony some day.  I am certain the members of this temple would give an amen to that. You won’t allow folks to run or hide.  I’d also like to thank my Pastor, Rev. Karla Cooper and Congregation from Quinn Chapel A.M.E, and my extended family members for their presence.  As I was in the grocery store this week, I was walking down the aisle and this can caught my attention. It said Hate Spread.  I was curious to see what ingredients were in it and wanted to know how it gets spread.  What’s that I hear?  You thought it was no longer on the shelf.  In recent months there has been a remanufacturing of it. Let’s look at the ingredients: Bigotry, Prejudice, Selfishness, Stereotyping, Self-Righteousness, Disappointing, Bias, Intolerance, Real, Racism.

Homophobia, Xenophobia, Islamaphobia, just us.

Interesting combination of ingredients.  All leading to wet your appetite with hate, racism, privilege, and prejudice.  So one might ask how does it get spread?  It is so simple.  You walk into the break room or you are walking in to church service and you engage in a parking lot conversation.  Someone you call a friend or associate says to you, 'have you heard the one about a bunch of', you fill in the blank.  You know when you can’t put yourself in the joke and get the same chuckle that it’s not appropriate; but, the part you missed is you didn’t challenge it because it’s a friend or a colleague, relative or the air was knocked out of you.  Someone gets belittled in that conversation.  So the prejudicial attitude becomes a main ingredient.  When I am not stopped, I get really bold.  I’ll drive past a place of worship, see members of the congregation outside and I’ll hurl a name or two at them; or, I’ll go to a restaurant and intentionally say loud enough they are here taking all the jobs, let a bunch of, would let them in here?  Don’t even drive that way--you know all of them live there.  So what was a whisper now has voice.  And as my voice gets stronger, some folks begin to listen and look up to me and I start to think I really am somebody.  Ingredient 2. Seems pretty harmless; but, left unattended, I start to harass folks anywhere I can find them because of their religion, nationality, gender sexual orientation, race. And it feels sooo good.  And if a group I think is beneath me is getting ahead of me, I start having multiple conversations in my head about how I am going to get them.

Then my talk gets stronger and I start to act against people and their property.  I commit acts of violence.  If we look at Dylan Roof a few months ago when his hate for African Americans boiled over into an act that stunned not only South Carolina but also our nation as we saw nine members of a black church snuffed away in the twinkling of an eye.  In a space dedicated for worship and spreading of the good news.  Where He was offered hospitality and hope.  Those who were like-minded made their presence known shortly after by desecrating other houses of worship.  We most recently have been reminded of the terrorist who acts unannounced and challenges us to live a life under a bushel because we fear going anywhere.
From Mizzou, to Yale, to Harvard, to Dartmouth, to Doane to UNL, students are letting us know they're tired of being made invisible and Black Lives Do Matter.  While those who are cowards use social media to spread their hate, a comment appeared in the Lincoln Journal Star regarding the rally yesterday--"I’ll hate minorities if I want and you can love their Asses for all I care".  People aren’t all going to think the same way.  Your protesting won’t change that.

On the other hand, a State Senator commended students for taking a stand and another commented things must be so good for students at UNL they have to create controversy to make them relevant.   To East High School where a student thought it would be funny to single out a student who was wearing a hijab and say, 'Look there’s a terriost'.  Nebraska Nice you might say.

Some of you will recall the power and controversy when Rodger’s and Hammerstein penned these words:
You’ve got to be taught to hate and fear
You’ve got to be taught from year to year
It’s got to be drummed in your dear little ear
You’ve got to be taught to be afraid
Of people whose eyes are oddly made
And people whose skin is a different shade
You’ve got to be carefully taught before it’s too late
Before you are six or seven or eight
To hate all the people your relatives hate
You’ve got be carefully taught

These words have stood the test of time and if we look at some hate crime statistics we see some are still being carefully taught.  5,479 hate crimes were reported in 2014.  Anti-LGBT, Anti-Black, Anti-Latino and Anti-Jewish crimes have dropped; but, an uptick in Anti-Muslim from 135 to 154.  Just imagine the number of incidents that aren’t reported because victims assume nothing will happen.

Hatred and being bitter just keeps a person living a life loaded with fear and paralyzed. Confusion commits itself along with darkness to be a constant companion.  The many acts we have seen and will continue to see remind us of that thin line between love and hate.  It is required of us to love from the very bottom of our tiptoes those who need love and may not love us back. But when you can love, you have power and we know as a community of believers it can transform an enemy into a friend.  But we are also required to be patient.

So as we gather with family and friends over the next weeks and celebrate our many rich traditions and love on one another, think about the pain we have witnessed in 2015.  In our world, community and even though we are not direct victims, we are indirectly sharing in the pain.  In our humanness, we share a brokenness and a sense of hopelessness.  That without an abundance of love for ones self and our neighbor, hate will continue to destination unknown.

John Lennon said:
IMAGINE ALL THE PEOPLE Living Life in Peace

We should leave here tonight with peace and  love at our core and a commitment to illuminate love in each encounter we have.  And when we do this, it give us the mitigated gall to Stand Up and Speak Out when we see an injustice. And we are then able to Reach Out and Touch.

Dr. Marilyn Johnson-Farr
Dwight E. Porter Professor
  of Education



















 Thank you, Nancy, for this wonderful opportunity to be in worship and fellowship with you 

this evening and the great members of this temple.  I always knew that you would carry 

with you from your many years of service to Lincoln Public Schools, and particularly your 

role as an Equity Liaison where we connected the heart, head, and hands, to continue to 

make sure that the issues of social justice stayed a part of your core on this journey to live 

in peace and harmony some day.  I am certain the members of this temple would give an 

amen to that. You won’t allow folks to run or hide.  I’d also like to thank my Pastor, Rev. 

Karla Cooper and Congregation from Quinn Chapel A.M.E, and my extended family 

members for their presence.  As I was in the grocery store this week, I was walking down 

the aisle and this can caught my attention. It said Hate Spread.  I was curious to see what 

ingredients were in it and wanted to know how it gets spread.  What’s that I hear?  You 

thought it was no longer on the shelf.  In recent months there has been a remanufacturing 

of it. Let’s look at the ingredients: Bigotry, Prejudice, Selfishness, Stereotyping, Self-

Righteousness, Disappointing, Bias, Intolerance, Real, Racism. 

Homophobia, Xenophobia, Islamaphobia, just us. 

Interesting combination of ingredients.  All leading to wet your appetite with hate, racism, 

privilege, and prejudice.  So one might ask how does it get spread?  It is so simple.  You 

walk into the break room or you are walking in to church service and you engage in a 

parking lot conversation.  Someone you call a friend or associate says to you, 'have you 

heard the one about a bunch of', you fill in the blank.  You know when you can’t put 

yourself in the joke and get the same chuckle that it’s not appropriate; but, the part you 

missed is you didn’t challenge it because it’s a friend or a colleague, relative or the air was 

knocked out of you.  Someone gets belittled in that conversation.  So the prejudicial attitude 

becomes a main ingredient.  When I am not stopped, I get really bold.  I’ll drive past a place 

of worship, see members of the congregation outside and I’ll hurl a name or two at them; 

or, I’ll go to a restaurant and intentionally say loud enough they are here taking all the jobs, 

let a bunch of, would let them in here?  Don’t even drive that way--you know all of them live 

there.  So what was a whisper now has voice.  And as my voice gets stronger, some folks 

begin to listen and look up to me and I start to think I really am somebody.  Ingredient 2. 

Seems pretty harmless; but, left unattended, I start to harass folks anywhere I can find 

them because of their religion, nationality, gender sexual orientation, race. And it feels sooo 

good.  And if a group I think is beneath me is getting ahead of me, I start having multiple 

conversations in my head about how I am going to get them.

Then my talk gets stronger and I start to act against people and their property.  I commit 

acts of violence.  If we look at Dylan Roof a few months ago when his hate for African 

Americans boiled over into an act that stunned not only South Carolina but also our nation 

as we saw nine members of a black church snuffed away in the twinkling of an eye.  In a 

space dedicated for worship and spreading of the good news.  Where He was offered 

hospitality and hope.  Those who were like-minded made their presence known shortly 

after by desecrating other houses of worship.  We most recently have been reminded of the 

terrorist who acts unannounced and challenges us to live a life under a bushel because we 

fear going anywhere. 

From Mizzou, to Yale, to Harvard, to Dartmouth, to Doane to UNL, students are letting us 

know they're tired of being made invisible and Black Lives Do Matter.  While those who are 

cowards use social media to spread their hate, a comment appeared in the Lincoln Journal 

Star regarding the rally yesterday--"I’ll hate minorities if I want and you can love their 

Asses for all I care".  People aren’t all going to think the same way.  Your protesting won’t 

change that.

On the other hand, a State Senator commended students for taking a stand and another 

commented things must be so good for students at UNL they have to create controversy to 

make them relevant.   To East High School where a student thought it would be funny to 

single out a student who was wearing a hijab and say, 'Look there’s a terriost'.  Nebraska 

Nice you might say.

Some of you will recall the power and controversy when Rodger’s and Hammerstein 

penned these words:

You’ve got to be taught to hate and fear

You’ve got to be taught from year to year

It’s got to be drummed in your dear little ear

You’ve got to be taught to be afraid

Of people whose eyes are oddly made

And people whose skin is a different shade

You’ve got to be carefully taught before it’s too late

Before you are six or seven or eight

To hate all the people your relatives hate

You’ve got be carefully taught

These words have stood the test of time and if we look at some hate crime statistics we see 

some are still being carefully taught.  5,479 hate crimes were reported in 2014.  Anti-LGBT, 

Anti-Black, Anti-Latino and Anti-Jewish crimes have dropped; but, an uptick in Anti-Muslim 

from 135 to 154.  Just imagine the number of incidents that aren’t reported because victims 

assume nothing will happen. 

Hatred and being bitter just keeps a person living a life loaded with fear and paralyzed. 

Confusion commits itself along with darkness to be a constant companion.  The many acts 

we have seen and will continue to see remind us of that thin line between love and hate.  It 

is required of us to love from the very bottom of our tiptoes those who need love and may 

not love us back. But when you can love, you have power and we know as a community of 

believers it can transform an enemy into a friend.  But we are also required to be patient.



So as we gather with family and friends over the next weeks and celebrate our many rich 

traditions and love on one another, think about the pain we have witnessed in 2015.  In our 

world, community and even though we are not direct victims, we are indirectly sharing in 

the pain.  In our humanness, we share a brokenness and a sense of hopelessness.  That 

without an abundance of love for ones self and our neighbor, hate will continue to 

destination unknown.

John Lennon said:

IMAGINE ALL THE PEOPLE Living Life in Peace

We should leave here tonight with peace and  love at our core and a commitment to 

illuminate love in each encounter we have.  And when we do this, it give us the mitigated 

gall to Stand Up and Speak Out when we see an injustice. And we are then able to Reach Out 

and Touch.

Dr. Marilyn Johnson-Farr

Dwight E. Porter Professor

  of Education










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