Sunday, November 25, 2012

Only One Blessing Per Day!...or Perhaps More!


Prior to Thanksgiving I noticed that many friends attempted to write about 1 blessing they had in their lives for thirty days.  The blessings were appropriately titled, one blessing each day for a month.  Initially I thought the exercise was a good one.  After all, how often do we actually sit down to verbally acknowledge the good in our lives? When I had time to reflect upon the process, however, I noticed that Judaism says we should recite 100 blessings a day.  Why the large difference? Let’s take a look at the system of brachot in Judaism.

First there are three categories of blessings :  Brachot Hanehenim, the blessings over eating, drinking, or smelling nice things; Brachot Hamitzvot, the blessings over performing a mitzvah; and Brachot Hodaah, the blessings that express praise and thanks to G-d. 

Eating, drinking, and smelling nice things…happen all the time especially when one lives an existence that most of us at Tifereth Israel live.  Being tied into a system of brachot related to this category of blessings would require one to acknowledge the source of the all too often taken for granted moments in our lives.  This category ensures that even when an event seems trivial, it still acquires a dimension of holiness. 

The brachot for performing a mitzvah such as studying Torah, affixing a mezuzah, lighting Shabbat candles, all acknowledge that the purpose of doing the mitzvah is to carry out G-d’s will.  Once again, these brachot attest to the holiness of the actions.  That’s why having one’s son circumcised as a medical procedure is different than having one’s son circumcised as a means of entering him into the covenant with G-d.  Interestingly enough, the only mitzvoth that are required to have a bracha recited prior to their performance are the ritual mitzvoth.  There are no blessings recited prior to performing purely ethical mitzvoth.  Ethical behavior is incumbent upon all human beings, not just Jews, so we cannot say “who has sanctified us to perform the mitzvah of______” prior to honoring one’s parents or not stealing.

Brachot over nature’s wonders allow us to express our sense of awe as we experience G-d’s creative powers. These blessings are to be recited upon seeing such a wonder for the first time or after thirty days.  Expressing one’s sense of wonder in terms of a bracha, is part of acknowledging G-d’s connection to all of life.  Brachot that express our gratitude for special times in our lives such as birth, marriage, and death, acknowledge our connectedness to G-d as well.

Recently I had a student who asked if it really wasn’t wrong for us to be teaching brachot to young children.  Afterall, isn’t wrong for kids to think that G-d gave them bread?  I must say that question rather surprised me.  It made me wonder if we gotten so far away from thinking that there is a connection between food on our tables and the source of all food?  Is it possible that we can only see the supermarket packaging and somehow think that humankind is responsible for food being on earth at all?  Have we gotten so used to thinking that humans are really in control of all that happens on earth and we have no connection to G-d as the source of all being?
I think it  is important to reflect about the times in your life when you’ve felt a connection to G-d and felt like offering a bracha, but I think it is also important to recognize that uttering a bracha reminds us to notice those connections even at times when we are likely to forget them.
Yes, saying one blessing everyday is laudable, as part of this Thanksgiving holiday season, but, it really should be part of our Jewish psyches to think that one blessing a day probably doesn’t adequately express all the times we should be acknowledging G-d’s involvement in our lives.   A system of brachot uttered by Jews over the centuries has ensured that we know to whom we are thankful and what our place is in the universe.

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